Why, right after you’ ve had a disagreement, discord, argument or fight with your partner, do you persist in replaying it over and over again? Why, once it’ s i9000 over, won’ t you forget about it? Why do you feel the need to rehash the fight with friends or loved ones, or at the very least, inside your own brain? And every time you review it, you feel worse about the event, regardless of whether it’ s worse about your self and your own reactions, or even worse about your mate.